Do you know what is the most challenging thing to do, for most people?
Do you communicate appropriately, quickly, with good intention and with emotional congruence so you can build harmony and open your heart and the heart of your beloved, so love can be more "easy"?
Or do you wait until some emotional charged is built up, and then it becomes inappropriately? And you expect a good result!?
Your words match the way you are feeling? Anf if they don't, do you know what they will generate?
And do you know that you have to drop your "child" survival mechanism? And learn a new one if you want to succeed in your relationship? (Well in my case, I do more than relate with this point? How about you?)
Do you keep saying what the others want to listen rather than what is truth for you? Well if you do, how can you feel integrity with yourself? And if you don't feel integrity with yourself, how can you be integrity with your beloved?
And do you know what your truth is? Learn how to discover "your truth"! You have no idea what you will win!
P.S. If I had to choose one of the reasons why my Long Distance Relationship did succeed, I would choose this one, "how to speak your truth appropriately, quickly, with good intention and with emotional congruence...".
I don't know if it is because I am more adult now or what, but the fact is that because I now speak "my truth" from the heart, with my beloved, it makes me feel like me and him are one single person, and that is so powerful.
I more than advice you to "learn how to speak your truth appropriately, quickly, with good intention and with emotional congruence..."
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