My Dear Lover,

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If a Long Distance Relationship is "hard" (but beautiful, because all love is beautiful), if your Long Distance Beloved is "One" of Them, I have no words to describe how brave you are.

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My Dear Lover,

Today I want to share with you a great resource that will help you to "get back" the romance in your Long Distance Relationship.

Please read until the end, because I have 2 questions for you!

How to be Romantic in Long Distance Relationships

By Alex Chew

Throughout our experience working with long distance couples, we frequently heard that long distance relationship does not have the elements of romance in it. This is not caused by the lack of love in long distance relationship but couples in such situation just do not know how to be romantic to each other. Romance in long distance relationship is necessary and it can make your relationship stronger regardless how far your lover may be.

There are million of things you can do to increase the romance in your long distance relationship. The basic rule here is to build your ability to show your distance partner that you really cherish and value the relationship throughout your LDR. Below are some of the areas you must understand and practice in order to increase the romance in your long distance relationship.

Sweet Talk
Communication is the most important thing in a long distance relationship and you must be able to talk sweetly over the telephone or any cheap channel that you can grab hold. Tell your partner that how you have missed and love them on their absence. Remember to tell your distance partner that you still treasure and care for them even when they are not physically around. Let them know that although you cannot be with them but you constantly think, enchanted and fascinated by them. Sweet talk can never be too much and you can do it as often as you like whenever you got the change to speak or communicate with your distance lover.

Listening with Care
Listening is the next most important thing in long distance relationship. It is important to be able to listen and understand completely the things that your partner is telling you whether it is about their day, wants or dreams. You are their only trusted person that they can look for to share and let their anger off without having to worry and therefore you must be able to listen with care when your partner needs you to lend them your ear. Sharing with your partner will always allow you to build and enhance the romantic moment in your relationship.

Love Note
Nothing is better that a written note with “I love you” message on it. Include this note whenever you send a letter to your distance partner or every time you send something to them. When you had the chance to meet your long distance partner, slip this note into their wallet, handbag, briefcase and etc without their knowledge. The note can be anything from simple “I miss you” to full blown love letter letting you distance partner know how much you have miss him or her.

Virtual Kiss
It may seem that kissing your partner is almost impossible in long distance relationship but you can always give a virtual kiss to your partner. You can always make a lipstick mark on a handkerchief with your mouth or write a “Kiss in Advance” note on a paper and send it to your partner. Tell your partner that you wanted to give them a kiss in advance and ask them to keep the handkerchief or note to remind you of the kiss when he or she sees you the next time.

Having Fun
Having fun is an important and serious matter in long distance relationship. Take the time to have fun with your distance lover. Both of your can always spend your time playing online computer game, surfing the internet, watching a movie at the same time or as well as spending the whole evening telling jokes to each other on the phone. Remember the good times that you both had while together and share them while chatting on the phone. You can also tease and make joke on your partner just to lighten up your conversation from time to time. Anyway you must know the limit as over teasing can cause hurt on your partner. The idea is to have fun while both of you had the opportunity to talk to each other on the phone.

Courtesy and Respect
Courtesy and respect are very important in long distance relationship. You partner may not be physically around but they are still part of your life and a little courtesy or respect can definitely pull both of your closer to each other. Remember to seek for your partner’s opinion in making a decision concerning the relationship and this will indirectly show them that you still care for them. Being romantic is to care, respect and understand your partner regardless where they may be.

Giving Compliments
Complimenting your partner is another way to show that you appreciate them in a long distance relationship. Think of something to complement your distance partner every day or every week. It does not have to be anything big or major. Something like “You look beautiful today” or “Your voice is sweet” will make your partner feel nice about them self even they are far away. On the other hand, you must remember to give only a sincere and honest compliment to your long distance partner. Your partner will certainly feel romantic knowing that you still admire and appreciate them despite the distance.

Above are the areas of romance to get you started and you can always create your own romantic moment by using the above examples. Be passionate about your LDR and romance will automatically show up at your doorstep. Lastly but not least I, on behalf of Perfect-Relationship.com would like to wish you all the best to your long distance relationship.

Alex Chew is an avid believer of Long Distance Relationship. He has been actively involved in helping distance couples on their journey through his research works and books. He is also the webmaster of http://www.distancelovinghelp.com/books/alexchew.html and the author of Manage Your Way to A Perfect Distance Relationship Guide
and several other e-books.

Copyright © 2005 Alex Chew & Perfect-Relationship.com

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Alex_Chew

P.S. I want to congratulate you, for reading until the end, that means that you are taking your Long Distance Relationship for serious.

So here are the 2 questions for you, that I mention at the begin:

Question 1: What is the most important thing in a long distance relationship? (hint: go and read the "Sweet Talk" topic)

Question 2: What is the next most important thing in long distance relationship? (hint: Well, I guess that if you answer the first question, you know the answer to this question...)

My Dear Lover,

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all you need to do is click the link below, or copy and paste it
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P.S. Did you already say "Thank You Mom" today? No?!
Well what are you waiting for? Go now, and say to your Mom how much
you love her with all your heart. She will be so happy!

My Dear Lover,

Some days ago I receive this email from one of my subscriber, telling me that her Long Distance Relationship did end!

Here is what she wrote to me:

"hie..i would like to say that this is an extremely good site,and that u all have helped me through my long distance relationship while it lasted.all your newsletters taught me many things and i'm grateful that i have u all to guide me.i once never believed that LDR can actually work,but i do now.even though my relationship didn't last,the reason of the break up was not from me.i did my best and have put in a lot of effort but unfortunately,my other half was not committed enough. but do keep up the good work.i'm sure many other people will benefit from your site in the future! thank you for everything :)"

Of course I am kind of sad but at same time kind of "happy".

I am sad because I do believe in Long Distance Relationships, hey I am in one for the last 3 years! And I get sad when I see that not all people that are living a Long Distance Relationship, can have the same kind of success I have in my Long Distance Relationship.

And I am kind of "happy" for 2 reasons.

The first is because when I put this website online ( http://www.distancelovinghelp.com), was to help you in your Long Distance Relationship. And although this subscriber didn't succeed in her relationship, she now believes in LDR, when in the past she didn't! "i once never believed that LDR can actually work,but i do now."

And the second reason I am kind of "happy" it's because, although I wanted to do this in the past, I didn't! You see the main reason that people unsuscribe to my e-course, it's because their Long Distance Relationship didn't work.

Thank God, that I have few un-subscribers!

But the fact is that when they un-subscribe, they send me an email, just like the last one I receive, thanking me for all the help I did provide to them, but things end up not working for them!

But this time I need your help!

I don't want to receive any more email's like this one!

And how can I get that?

Helping you even more! Maybe I receive email's like this one, because I could not help you in what you need more help!

Sometimes, just because we are living something, we think that the others that are living the same experience like us, have the same problems like we do.

But sometimes that is not true. Each Long Distance Relationship is unique. Of course you and me have some core "problems", the missing of ours beloved ones, the need of deep communication, the insecurity and etc., you know what I mean!

But for sure your Long Distance Relationship is different from mine. And what I am asking you is to tell me what is your biggest "problem" in your Long Distance Relationship, so I can help you even more, and like that maybe I will not receive more emails like that one!

I only want that you un-subscribe when your Long Distance Relationship arrive to the end, not because you broke, but because now you live together.


P.S. Even if your Long Distance Relationship arrive to the end because now you live together, if you wish, you can keep subscribed to my e-course, because it's more than a Long Distance Relationship e-course! Above all, it's an e-course about Love Relationships, (well at least I try once in a while to send you some great resource about Love Relationships, like the ones you can find in the section of the interviews, at http://www.distancelovinghelp.com/interviews/index.html )

P.P.S. Please, tell me what is your biggest "problem" in your Long Distance Relationship, so I can help you even more. Thanks.

My Dear Lover,

Today I have a little test for you, are you ready? Good! So let's go.
All you need is fill the blanks.

Question 1:
Nothing can bridge the gap like the ________ of your partner's ________.

Question 2:
When you're missing your partner's touch, a _______ ______ _____
can be the closest remedy available.

Question 3:
Send your partner an item of __________ or something ______ that they can
______ or _______ daily.

Question 4:
One of the most effective ways to trigger an emotion is through the use of ______.


P.S. For you to win, all you need to do is answer the questions! And you can find the answers (well, and a lot more) at http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/ldr/content.shtml?ART=ldrintimacy

P.P.S. You did the test? No?! You have no idea how much you are losing...

Don't measure the distance, measure the Love, Maria Madeira.