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Thursday, May 11, 2006

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My Dear Lover,

Some days ago I receive this email from one of my subscriber, telling me that her Long Distance Relationship did end!

Here is what she wrote to me:

"hie..i would like to say that this is an extremely good site,and that u all have helped me through my long distance relationship while it lasted.all your newsletters taught me many things and i'm grateful that i have u all to guide me.i once never believed that LDR can actually work,but i do now.even though my relationship didn't last,the reason of the break up was not from me.i did my best and have put in a lot of effort but unfortunately,my other half was not committed enough. but do keep up the good work.i'm sure many other people will benefit from your site in the future! thank you for everything :)"

Of course I am kind of sad but at same time kind of "happy".

I am sad because I do believe in Long Distance Relationships, hey I am in one for the last 3 years! And I get sad when I see that not all people that are living a Long Distance Relationship, can have the same kind of success I have in my Long Distance Relationship.

And I am kind of "happy" for 2 reasons.

The first is because when I put this website online ( http://www.distancelovinghelp.com), was to help you in your Long Distance Relationship. And although this subscriber didn't succeed in her relationship, she now believes in LDR, when in the past she didn't! "i once never believed that LDR can actually work,but i do now."

And the second reason I am kind of "happy" it's because, although I wanted to do this in the past, I didn't! You see the main reason that people unsuscribe to my e-course, it's because their Long Distance Relationship didn't work.

Thank God, that I have few un-subscribers!

But the fact is that when they un-subscribe, they send me an email, just like the last one I receive, thanking me for all the help I did provide to them, but things end up not working for them!

But this time I need your help!

I don't want to receive any more email's like this one!

And how can I get that?

Helping you even more! Maybe I receive email's like this one, because I could not help you in what you need more help!

Sometimes, just because we are living something, we think that the others that are living the same experience like us, have the same problems like we do.

But sometimes that is not true. Each Long Distance Relationship is unique. Of course you and me have some core "problems", the missing of ours beloved ones, the need of deep communication, the insecurity and etc., you know what I mean!

But for sure your Long Distance Relationship is different from mine. And what I am asking you is to tell me what is your biggest "problem" in your Long Distance Relationship, so I can help you even more, and like that maybe I will not receive more emails like that one!

I only want that you un-subscribe when your Long Distance Relationship arrive to the end, not because you broke, but because now you live together.


P.S. Even if your Long Distance Relationship arrive to the end because now you live together, if you wish, you can keep subscribed to my e-course, because it's more than a Long Distance Relationship e-course! Above all, it's an e-course about Love Relationships, (well at least I try once in a while to send you some great resource about Love Relationships, like the ones you can find in the section of the interviews, at http://www.distancelovinghelp.com/interviews/index.html )

P.P.S. Please, tell me what is your biggest "problem" in your Long Distance Relationship, so I can help you even more. Thanks.

7 Comments:

  • At 10:57 AM, anuradha said…

    Hi Maria
    3 years seem a short time to me I've been in one for 7 years. I subscribed to your newsletter in a moment of insecurity and do go through it every once in a while.

    Luckily, while some doubts remains my relationship seems to be going strong.
    Your newsletter helps in knowing there are othwer women in the same boat and I'm not silly or stupid to wait out like this.
    What I'd like to know is 'are there guys who are reading u're newsletter to?' what are they thoughts and views.

     
  • At 12:35 PM, Anonymous said…

    Hi, Maria

    Thanks for keeping us with hope. Actually my LDR has worked nicely for me and hope it last forever. It is interesting but insecurity is away from me and I do not feel it from my partner. Maybe because we are mature enough to clearly understand what we want. I have been doing what you suggest naturally and I even forgot about the distance (it doesn't exist) amaizingly.....I think I got used to live with him in my dreams, e-mails, phone calls, and some trips. But I remembered I never feel that closed to my ex-husband in 18 years as I feel now in this LDR. In my view, it depends how you feel about somebody in your emotions, expectations and plans. It has been important to communicate every single desire and emotion to keep the relationship interesting and close.

     
  • At 5:48 PM, Anonymous said…

    Hi Maria!!!

    I love your Site... and what it has done for me!!!

    I'm a "GUY" and live in NEPAL / ASIA.

    I just can't express my gratitude and love... THANKS for making my life... a bit more bearable... a bit more HOPEFUL (every day).

    If I believe in LDR... it's thanks to you.

    Love n hugs from Nepal
    Mike

     
  • At 5:51 PM, Anonymous said…

    Hi Maria!!!

    I love your Site... and what it has done for me!!!

    I'm a "GUY" and live in NEPAL / ASIA.

    I just can't express my gratitude and love... THANKS for making my life... a bit more bearable... a bit more HOPEFUL (every day).

    If I believe in LDR... it's thanks to you.

    Love n hugs from Nepal
    Mike

     
  • At 2:43 AM, Anonymous said…

    Maria,

    your advice is so helpful and it is so great to have someone help me be optimistic when sometimes it seems that a LDR is so difficult. i just want more advice on how to keep it up, if you are from different countries.... what will happen? my boyfriend and i are having problems with this right now, because we are both very ambitious and hard-working, but we love each other and are attached to each other too much to let it go (and we want it to work!). however, it has been almost 6 months since we have seen each other because we have been so busy with school/ work... my boyfriend thinks that if we see each other, we will just get more attached and suffer more when we are apart and alone. what should we do??

     
  • At 8:50 PM, IUgirlLOVESbsuBOY said…

    yea i am having a really hard time now also. I am already in a long distance relationship, but now my boyfriend just told me that he is plannning on moving (for graduate school) to another state even farther away. This will require flying to see each other. I am sooo nervous and scared. We both decided to stay together because it will be worth it, but i am afraid of not gettin to see him because of cost issues. I really hope it all works out!

     
  • At 4:26 AM, Anonymous said…

    hi maria, ur website has helped me in soo many ways.....but i do have a few problems....well 1st of all my boyfriend n i we live in different countries but its not too far...to b honest wit u we have been together for almost a year now n ur probably goin to laugh but we have spent approximately 2 days wit each other frm since we meet.....cus u see altho he doesnt live dat far away frm my country ...he went off to school in Rhode Island...n dat is like soo far away frm me.....tickets to travel up there is expensive....we havent seen each other frm february....he says dat he loves me n i love him too....everytime we plan to see one another sumthing always happens or comes up...i dnt kno how much more of this he can take...he says he's in it for the long run but u kno guys...he's young n attractive...he's in college...am i bein to insecure...please hlep me...need sum advise badly

     

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