My Dear Lover,

The ultimate goal of a Long Distance Relationship is to end by
being together forever. But until that happens there will be times
when you will be together and times when you will be apart from
your beloved.

In last posts, I share with you, my advice's on how to handle
the emotional phases of separation.

You can read the edition "What Is Wrong With You?" at:
http://www.distancelovinghelp.com/blog/2005/07/what-is-wrong-with-you.html
and the edition "What is Wrong With You?" - Part II at:
http://www.distancelovinghelp.com/blog/2005/07/what-is-wrong-with-you-part-ii.html

Today I want to share with you how to plan and make the most of the
time when you and your beloved are together.

Probably I should have start with the topic of being together,
prior to the topic of being apart, but next post I will tell you
the reason why "Why I Change The Sequence?".

For the success of a Long Distance Relationship you need to
spend time together. Not doing that will damage the relation.
People change with time, and you need to be together as often as possible.

And what is more exciting than counting the days, the hours, the
minutes until you are able to see and touch each other, hold each
other and fell each other?

And because you want to make all moments that you are together
count, sometimes, we spend so many times and energy planning out,
your time and activities that you will do together, that you simply
"forget" to enjoy the happiness of being just together.

I mean, of course you have to plan your activities, like show your
country if you live in different countries, going to nice places,
taking care of activities for start building your future together,
like search for job, or for your future house, etc.

But also leave time, for taking a bubble bath together, cooking a
romantic meal, or just spend an entire day cuddling each other.

And one last advice, it's natural that after you be apart for so
long, that when you be together again, you will have fantastic love
making, but don't let all be physical, nourish your relation even
more when you are together. That time is precious.

Don't measure the distance, measure the Love, Maria Madeira.